Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Be Prepared

1 Nephi 18:6

Theme- Be Prepared

What
 6 And it came to pass that on the morrow, after we had prepared all things, much fruits and meat from the wilderness, and honey in abundance, and provisions according to that which the Lord had commanded us, we did go down into the ship, with all our loading and our seeds, and whatsoever thing we had brought with us, every one according to his age; wherefore, we did all go down into the  ship, with our wives and our children.

They prepared as well as possible for this journey across the ocean. They had a supply of food to last them for the journey and seeds to plant when they got there. Apparently, they engaged everyone, young and old in this preparation.

Why
They prepared because they were commanded to prepare and because they knew that it would be a long journey across the ocean. There would be not much chance to obtain other food on the way.

Pattern

Ezekiel 38:7

    7 Be thou prepared, and prepare for thyself, thou, and all thy company that are assembled unto thee, and be thou a guard unto them.
    8 But behold, to their uttermost astonishment, they were prepared for them, in a manner which never had been known among the children of Lehi. Now they were prepared for the Lamanites, to battle after the manner of the instructions of Moroni.

Alma 37:46

    46 O my son, do not let us be slothful because of the easiness of the way; for so was it with our fathers; for so was it prepared for them, that if they would look they might live; even so it is with us. The way is prepared, and if we will look we may live forever.
    6 Now the leaders of the Lamanites had supposed, because of the greatness of their numbers, yea, they supposed that they should be privileged to come upon them as they had hitherto done; yea, and they had also prepared themselves with shields, and with breastplates; and they had also prepared themselves with garments of skins, yea, very thick garments to cover their nakedness.

Ether 12:32

    32 And I also remember that thou hast said that thou hast prepared a house for man, yea, even among the mansions of thy Father, in which man might have a more excellent hope; wherefore man must hope, or he cannot receive an inheritance in the place which thou hast prepared.
    28 Behold, are ye stripped of pride? I say unto you, if ye are not ye are not prepared to meet God. Behold ye must prepare quickly; for the kingdom of heaven is soon at hand, and such an one hath not eternal life.

Doctrine and Covenants 29:8

    8 Wherefore the decree hath gone forth from the Father that they shall be gathered in unto one place upon the face of this land, to prepare their hearts and be prepared in all things against the day when tribulation and desolation are sent forth upon the wicked.
    29 Behold, I say, is there one among you who is not stripped of envy? I say unto you that such an one is not prepared; and I would that he shouldprepare quickly, for the hour is close at hand, and he knoweth not when the time shall come; for such an one is not found guiltless.

Hebrews 11:7

7 By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house; by the which he condemned the world, and became heir of the righteousness which is by faith.

Genesis 7:9
 9 There went in two and two unto Noah into the ark, the male and the female, as God had commanded Noah.

The kingdom of God on earth is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (D&C 65). The purpose of the Church is to prepare its members to live forever in the celestial kingdom or kingdom of heaven. However, the scriptures sometimes call the ...


Christ
Jesus came to the earth prepared to do the work He was sent to do.

Ether 3:14

14 Behold, I am he who was prepared from the foundation of the world to redeem my people. Behold, I am Jesus Christ. I am the Father and the Son. In me shall all mankind have life, and that eternally, even they who shall believe on my name; and they shall become my sons and my daughters

Conference
11/2011 Ian S. Arden
A Time
To Prepare.
Alma spoke of priorities when he taught that “this life became a probationary state; a time to prepare to meet God” (Alma 12:24). How to best use the rich heritage of time to prepare to meet God may require some guidance, but surely we would place the Lord and our families at the top of the list. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf reminded us that “in family relationships love is really spelled t-i-m-e” (“Of Things That Matter Most,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 22). I testify that when help is prayerfully and sincerely sought, our Heavenly Father will help us to give emphasis to that which deserves our time above something else.
The poor use of time is a close cousin of idleness. As we follow the command to “cease to be idle” (D&C 88:124), we must be sure that being busy also equates to being productive. For example, it is wonderful to have the means of instant communication quite literally at our fingertips, but let us be sure that we do not become compulsive fingertip communicators. I sense that some are trapped in a new time-consuming addiction—one that enslaves us to be constantly checking and sending social messages and thus giving the false impression of being busy and productive.


11/80 Ezra Taft Benson
Prepare for the Days of Tribulation
For over forty years, in a spirit of love, members of the Church have been counseled to be thrifty and self-reliant; to avoid debt; pay tithes and a generous fast offering; be industrious; and have sufficient food, clothing, and fuel on hand to last at least one year.
Today there are compelling reasons to reemphasize this counsel. We heard it done effectively in that great welfare meeting this morning. May I add just a word.
...More than ever before, we need to learn and apply the principles of economic self-reliance. We do not know when the crisis involving sickness or unemployment may affect our own circumstances. We do know that the Lord has decreed global calamities for the future and has warned and forewarned us to be prepared. For this reason the Brethren have repeatedly stressed a “back to basics” program for temporal and spiritual welfare.
Today, I emphasize a most basic principle: home production and storage. Have you ever paused to realize what would happen to your community or nation if transportation were paralyzed or if we had a war or depression? How would you and your neighbors obtain food? How long would the corner grocery store—or supermarket—sustain the needs of the community?
I bear you my testimony that President Heber J. Grant was inspired of the Lord in establishing the Church Welfare program. The First Presidency was inspired when they made the first public announcement in 1936 and declared the prime purpose of Church welfare was “to help the people help themselves” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1936, p. 3). I bear witness to that inspired counsel from 1936 to the present day that the Saints lay up a year’s supply of food. When President Spencer W. Kimball persistently admonishes the members to plant gardens and fruit trees and produce our own food, he is likewise inspired of the Lord.
Be faithful, my brothers and sisters, to this counsel and you will be blessed—yes, the most blessed people in all the earth. You are good people. I know that. But all of us need to be better than we are. Let us be in a position so we are able to not only feed ourselves through the home production and storage, but others as well.
May God bless us to be prepared for the days which lie ahead, which may be the most severe yet. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Apply
Life is a journey. We plan and work for a better future but we do not know what our circumstances will be . We are guided by prophets to receive revelation for the membership of the church. We have scriptures and local leaders who guide and help us and we have our Father in Heaven and His Son, Jesus Christ who love us and watch over us. They know us far better than we know ourselves.
They have given us guidelines sot that we can be prepared for the troubles that will most certainly beset us during this life. The wise thing to do is to prepare ourselves in every way that we can. Spiritually, mentally and physically.
What are we preparing for? The future of course!. Ultimately, we are preparing for our home beyond this life. Life goes on after we leave this one. He has prepared a mansion for us if we have prepared ourselves to be in it.

Doctrine and Covenants 72:4

    4 For he who is faithful and wise in time is accounted worthy to inherit the mansions prepared for him of my Father.
    2 In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
    6 And if thou art faithful unto the end thou shalt have a crown of immortality, and eternal life in the mansions which I have prepared in the house of my Father.
These mansions are real. Just as real as the house you live in now! Relationships are real and lasting. That is if we are prepared for them through divine ordinances.

If we have faith in Him and truly believe in Him, then we will have peace in our hearts and be able to prepare everything that is needed.

For most of us, the journey is long and we are tossed around all over the place but, He an calm the seas.
Let us plan and prepare with our families, for our future in this life so it will mesh seamlessly with that future home with family across the veil.

I love this quote from Eliza R. Snow
“I will go forward, I will smile at the rage of the tempest, and ride fearlessly and triumphantly across the boisterous ocean of circumstance and the testimony of Jesus will light up a lamp that will guide my vision though the portals of immortality. “

Hymn
226 Improve The Shining Moments.
Alma 34:32-33
 32 For behold, this life is the time for men to prepare to meet God; yea, behold the day of  this life is the day for men to perform their labors.
 33 And now, as I said unto you before, as ye have had so many witnesses, therefore, I beseech of you that ye do not  procrastinate the day of your repentance until the end; for after this day of life, which is given us to prepare for eternity, behold, if we do not improve our time while in this life, then cometh the night of darkness wherein there can be no labor performed.

Children
166-A Young Man Prepared






Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Commitment- 1 Nephi 18:5

1 Nephi 18:5

Commitment

What
5 And it came to pass that the voice of the Lord came unto my father, that we should arise and go down into the ship.

Nephi was in charge of building the ship. Lehi was still the prophet and leader. He is the one who received the commandment to gather his family and supplies and go down into the ship. Probably he was actively engaged in working and preparing the ship also but the record that we have in the Book of Mormon is in Nephi's writings so we get it from his point of view. It is an excellent record and perfectly accurate but the feelings and directions that Lehi received may be left out because Lehi wrote his own record. That record is not available to us but we have sufficient record to direct us.

To enter the ship was to make a full commitment to keep the commandment to cross the ocean and begin a new life.

Why
The family was being protected from the enemies in Jerusalem who would have destroyed them and their religion. They were being given a new start in a new place but not without a lot of work and suffering and learning in the school of hard knocks. They were being tested and tried. Now they had built the ship and gathered all kinds of supplies and were ready to begin the journey. It was a total commitment to get on the ship and sail. There could be no turning back.

Pattern
We see this pattern as the Latter Day Saints left their homes in Kirtland and in Nauvoo for a better place where they could live their religion without persecution. Others left their homes in foreign countries to come to Zion and sacrificed much..

Moses and the Israelite s also left Egypt with much difficulty for the right to be free and to worship as they chose.

Noah's family boarded the ark and closed it up when the rain started that had been prophesied.

Abraham and Lot took up their journey also.

This pattern is applied as we follow the Prophet today as well.


Deuteronomy 8:20

20 As the nations which the Lord destroyeth before your face, so shall ye perish; because ye would not be obedient unto the voice of the Lordyour God.

Jeremiah 42:6

6 Whether it be good, or whether it be evil, we will obey the voice of the Lord our God, to whom we send thee; that it may be well with us, when we obey the voice of the Lord our God.

Zechariah 6:15

15 And they that are far off shall come and build in the temple of the Lord, and ye shall know that theLord of hosts hath sent me unto you. And this shall come to pass, if ye will diligently obey thevoice of the Lord your God.

1 Nephi 16:26

26 And it came to pass that the voice of the Lordsaid unto him: Look upon the ball, and behold the things which are written.

Deuteronomy 28:2

2 And all these blessings shall come on thee, and overtake thee, if thou shalt hearken unto the voiceof the Lord thy God.

Helaman 12:23

23 Therefore, blessed are they who will repent and hearken unto the voice of the Lord their God; for these are they that shall be saved.

Conference


2014 Ballard
Stay On The Boat
The Lord in His goodness has provided help, including a boat, essential supplies such as life jackets, and experienced river guides who give guidance and safety instructions to help us make our way down the river of life to our final destination.
Let’s think about rule number one: stay in the boat!
President Brigham Young commonly employed “the Old Ship Zion” as a metaphor for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
He said on one occasion: “We are in the midst of the ocean. A storm comes on, and, as sailors say, she labors very hard. ‘I am not going to stay here,’ says one; ‘I don’t believe this is the “Ship Zion.”’ ‘But we are in the midst of the ocean.’ ‘I don’t care, I am not going to stay here.’ Off goes the coat, and he jumps overboard. Will he not be drowned? Yes. So with those who leave this Church. It is the ‘Old Ship Zion,’ let us stay it.
And finally, President Young reminded the Saints: “We are on the old ship Zion. … [God] is at the helm and will stay there. … All is right, sing Hallelujah, for the Lord is here. He dictates, guides and directs. If the people will have implicit confidence in their God, never forsake their covenants nor their God, He will guide us right.”3
Given the challenges we all face today, how do we stay on the Old Ship Zion?


2015 Ballard
God Is At The Helm
In last October’s general conference, I invited listeners to follow Brigham Young’s counsel to stay on the Old Ship Zion, which is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and to hold on with both hands.1 Since then, I am happy to know that some of my family and others were listening and have asked me this question: “What’s in the Old Ship Zion that we should hang on to?” I reminded them of what President Brigham Young said: “We are on the old ship Zion. … [God] is at the helm and will stay there. … He dictates, guides and directs. If the people will have implicit confidence in their God, never forsake their covenants nor their God, He will guide us right.”2
Clearly, our Heavenly Father and the Lord Jesus Christ have outfitted the Old Ship Zion with clear and simple eternal truths that will help us stay the course through the troubled waters of mortal life. Here are just a few.
The Church of Jesus Christ has always been led by living prophets and apostles. Though mortal and subject to human imperfection, the Lord’s servants are inspired to help us avoid obstacles that are spiritually life threatening and to help us pass safely through mortality to our final, ultimate, heavenly destination.
Apply
Lehi's family boarded the ship to sail to a place they have never seen or heard of except from the Lord as the “promised land”. That it would be a leap of faith and total commitment. When we are baptized into the Church we also make a commitment. We promise to keep the commandments and serve the Lord. To take His name upon us. As we are baptized by water, so the waters of the great sea “baptized' that ship and all who were in it symbolically. . They totally relied on Him to take them to the place of freedom to worship. There was no going back. They would follow the prophet all the way.
We make a commitment when we make covenants with our Heavenly Father wen we are Baptized, partake of the sacrament and when we receive temple covenants.
Staying true to our covenants with total commitment brings great peace and blessings. If we stand firm and steadfast then we can receive eternal blessings. These things apply to our Sabbath Day observance, fulfilling callings and keeping the commandments. Commitment means that we are all the way in 100 percent.
Hymns-
255-Carry On
1. Firm as the mountains around us,
Stalwart and brave we stand
On the rock our fathers planted
For us in this goodly land--
The rock of honor and virtue,
Of faith in the living God.
They raised his banner triumphant--
Over the desert sod.

Alma 57:27  27 Now this was the faith of these of whom I have spoken; they are young, and their minds are firm, and they do put their trust in God continually.

Children

96- Faith

Monday, August 1, 2016

Humility -1 Nephi 18:4


1 Nephi 18:4

Theme- Humility

 4 And it came to pass that after I had finished the ship, according to the word of the Lord, my brethren beheld that it was good, and that the workmanship thereof was exceedingly fine; wherefore, they did humble themselves again before the Lord.

Humility, Humble



Why
The rebellious brothers had humbled themselves before the Lord because they had participated in a revelatory experience as they witnessed that Nephi received direction from the Lord to build this ship in a way they had never ever heard or seen before. They were pleased with the end result and recognized that the Lord had been their teacher and guide and they understood and became submissive and teachable and obedient to the teachings given them of the Lord through their younger brother, Nephi.

Pattern
Chronicles 7:14
14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall  humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

Matt.18:4
 4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

James 4:10
 10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.

D&C 112:10
 10 Be thou humble; and the Lord thy God shall lead thee by the hand, and give thee answer to thy prayers.

D&C 136:32-33
32 Let him that is  ignorant learn wisdom by humbling himself and calling upon the Lord his God, that his eyes may be opened that he may see, and his ears opened that he may hear;
 33 For my Spirit is sent forth into the world to enlighten the humble and contrite, and to the condemnation of the ungodly.

Ether 12:27
 “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; … for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.”

Christ
It was the Lord who directed the building of the ship and the brothers of Nephi did humble themselves before Him.
Jesus was humble and followed the teachings and will of his Father in Heaven even to the point of sacrificing his own life and atoning for the sins of the world. He said I the Lord's prayer, 
Matt.6:10
10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. “

Conference
2016 Snow
Be Thou Humble
The Savior taught His followers that they must humble themselves as a little child in order to enter into the kingdom of heaven.6 As we raise our own children, we need to help them remain humble as they mature into adulthood. We do not do this by breaking their spirit through unkindness or by being too harsh in our discipline. While nurturing their self-confidence and self-esteem, we need to teach them the qualities of selflessness, kindness, obedience, lack of pride, civility, and unpretentiousness. We need them to learn to take joy in the successes of siblings and friends. President Howard W. Hunter taught that “our genuine concern should be for the success of others.”7 If not, our children can become obsessed with self-promotion and outdoing others, jealousy, and resentment for the triumphs of peers. I’m grateful for a mother who, when seeing I was becoming too full of myself as a boy, would say, “Son, a little bit of humility right now would go a long way.”
But humility is not something reserved to be taught only to children. We must all strive to become more humble. Humility is essential to gain the blessings of the gospel. Humility enables us to have broken hearts when we sin or make mistakes and makes it possible for us to repent. Humility enables us to be better parents, sons and daughters, husbands and wives, neighbors and friends.
On the other hand, unnecessary pride can dissolve family relationships, break up marriages, and destroy friendships.
Apply
Applying humility to our lives is difficult because when we think we are humble then we are probably not and when we think we are not then perhaps we really are,
Give the Lord credit where credit is due. That would be for everything good that comes to us. Being teachable and eager to learn good things.
Think of others instead of ourselves. Serve with unselfishness. Forget yourself and focus on what you can do for others. If you do that you will have joy in your service and you will be effective.
Help children to think about how others feel and what their needs are instead of being all wrapped up in themselves. Teach them to follow the Lord. To pray and to follow Him.
A humble person is a strong person who knows the source of their power comes from God.
Hymn
130-Be Thous Humble
98-I Need Thee Every Hour
2 Nephi 4:34-35
34 O Lord, I have trusted in thee, and I will trust in thee forever. I will not put my trust in the arm of flesh; for I know that cursed is he that putteth his trust in the arm of flesh. Yea, cursed is he that putteth his trust in man or maketh flesh his arm.
 35 Yea, I know that God will give liberally to him that asketh. Yea, my God will give me, if I ask not amiss; therefore I will lift up my voice unto thee; yea, I will cry unto thee, my God, the rock of myerighteousness. Behold, my voice shall forever ascend up unto thee, my rock and mine everlasting God. Amen.
171-With Humble Heart
Children

78- I'm Trying To Be Like Jesus

Sunday, July 31, 2016

Pray Often

Pray Often
Nephi 18:3

The study of this little verse sheds a lot of light on the importance of frequent prayer.
You will find other scriptures on prayer as well as talks and articles by apostles and suggested Hymns to use in Family Home evening, talks, discussions , lessons or for your own personal study.
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Topic-Prayer

What
 3 And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did  a pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord b showed unto me c great things.

Why
Nephi had been commanded to build a s hip and to follow the directions given him of the Lord. He was also a humble servant and had many reasons for guidance as a spiritual leader of his family.

Pattern

Doctrine and Covenants 90:1

    1 Thus saith the Lord, verily, verily I say unto you my son, thy sins are forgiven thee, according to thy petition, for thy prayers and the prayers of thy brethren have come up into my ears.
    14 And again, the angel said: Behold, the Lord hath heard the prayers of his people, and also the prayers of his servant, Alma, who is thy father; for he has prayed with much faith concerning thee that thou mightest be brought to the knowledge of the truth; therefore, for this purpose have I come to convince thee of the power and authority of God, that the prayers of his servants might be answered according to their faith.

Isaiah 56:7

7 Even them will I bring to my holy mountain, and make them joyful in my house of prayer: their burnt offerings and their sacrifices shall be accepted upon mine altar; for mine house shall be called an house of prayer for all people.

Mormon 5:21

21 And also the Lord will remember the prayers of the righteous, which have been put up unto him for them.

Doctrine and Covenants 103:36

36 All victory and glory is brought to pass unto you through your diligence, faithfulness, and prayers of faith.

2 Nephi 4:24

24 And by day have I waxed bold in mighty prayer before him; yea, my voice have I sent up on high; and angels came down and ministered unto me.

Doctrine and Covenants 29:6

6 And, as it is written—Whatsoever ye shall ask in faith, being united in prayer according to my command, ye shall receive.

Conference
4/07 Scott
Using The Supernal Gift of Prayer

How Are Prayers Answered?

Some truths regarding how prayers are answered may help you.
Often when we pray for help with a significant matter, Heavenly Father will give us gentle promptings that require us to think, exercise faith, work, at times struggle, then act. It is a step-by-step process that enables us to discern inspired answers.
I have discovered that what sometimes seems an impenetrable barrier to communication is a giant step to be taken in trust. Seldom will you receive a complete response all at once. It will come a piece at a time, in packets, so that you will grow in capacity. As each piece is followed in faith, you will be led to other portions until you have the whole answer. That pattern requires you to exercise faith in our Father’s capacity to respond. While sometimes it’s very hard, it results in significant personal growth.
[I recommend that you study this entire talk, it is thorough and outstanding.]

Article by Russel M. Ballard
Keeping Your Life In Balance (see www.lds.org/youth)

8. Pray Often

My last suggestion is to pray often as individuals and as families. You can know the right decisions to make each day through constant, sincere prayer.
The prophet Alma summarized the importance of prayer in these words: “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and call on his holy name, and watch and pray continually, that ye may not be tempted above that which ye can bear, and thus be led by the Holy Spirit, becoming humble, meek, submissive, patient, full of love and all long-suffering” (Alma 13:28). When I am in tune spiritually, I find that I can balance everything in my life much more easily.

[I also recommend that you study this entire article]

Apply
Study these talks and scriptures and apply them to your life. Pray often and sincerely and listen for answers. Learn to ask the right questions. Keep the commandments.
Hymns
140- Did You Think To Pray?
145-Prayer Is The Soul's Sincere Desire

The prophet Alma summarized the importance of prayer in these words: “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and call on his holy name, and watch and pray continually, that ye may not be tempted above that which ye can bear, and thus be led by the Holy Spirit, becoming humble, meek, submissive, patient, full of love and all long-suffering” (Alma 13:28). When I am in tune spiritually, I find that I can balance everything in my life much more easily.


Sunday, June 12, 2016

Believe In Healing

Believe In Healing
(for parents of a wayward child or spouse of a wayward companion )
by Barbara Matson

1 Nephi 17:18
And thus my brethren did complain against me, and were desirous that they might no labor, for they did not believe that I could build a ship;, neither would they believe that I was instructed of the Lord.

Mark 9 17-29
a father brought his son to Jesus and explained that “he teareth him; and he foameth, and gnasheth with his teeth, and pineth away; and I spake to the disciples that they should cast him out, and they could not.'He answereth him, and saith, O faithless generation, how long shall I be with you; how long shall I suffer you? Bring him unto me. …

Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth. And straightway the father of the child cried out, and said with tears, Lord, I believe; help though mine unbelief.”

then Jesus rebuked the foul spirit and the spirit cried and left him. And the boy was like he was dead but Jesus took him by the hand and lifted him u; and he arose. When the disciples asked him privately, why they could not cast him out, Jesus said “this kind can come forth by nothing but by prayer and fasting.

Matt. 17:20-21
of this same incident in Matthew it is recorded.
19: then came the disciples to Jesus apart, and said, why could not we cast him out?
And Jesus said unto them, Because of your unbelief for verily I say unto you, If you have faith as a grain of mustard see, ye shall say unto this mountain , remove hence to yonder place, and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you. Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.”

When Jesus was met by the leader of the synagogue who's daughter was dead, Jesus said “be not afraid, only believe” then he went to the house and although there were scoffers who laughed him to scorn, he told her to arise and she arose and walked.
We can figuratively, bring them to Christ and ask that he cast out the evil from them. Our part is to BELIEVE! Really believe with all our hearts and not lose faith even if it takes a long time for this process to happen. Free agency plays a part in this. But, all things are possible to him that believeth.


Faith is a principle, Believing is the action we take when we have faith. Faith is not valid if we do not believe.

John 17:I 
pray not that thou shouldst take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from the evil.

Another great talk on belief is “Do I Believe?” by Bonnie L. Oscarson April '16
“We have a knowledge of these things, but do we believe them? If these things are true, then we have the greatest message of hope and help that the world has ever known. Believing th;em is a matter if eternal significance for us and for those we love.
To believe, we need to get the gospel from our heads into our hearts!”

As a parent of one who has strayed into unbelief we find ourselves in a desperate situation much like the father who brought his son to Jesus when he was possessed of a devil.

When our child, son or daughter, denies Christ and all that they have been taught are they not also possessed of the devil. Does he not direct their thinking?

President Uchtdorf explains it like this:

“Be Not Afraid, Only Believe” by Pres. Uchtdorf Oct. 15

another of Satan’s deceptions; that belief is available to some people but not to others. There is no magic to belief. But wanting to believe is the necessary first step! God is no respecter of persons. He is your Father. He wants to speak to you. However, it requires a little scientific curiosity—it requires an experiment upon the word of God-- and the exercise of a “particle of faith” It also takes a little humility. And it requires an open heart and an open mind. It requires seeking, in the full meaning of the word. And, perhaps hardest of all, it requires being patient and waiting upon the Lord. If we make no effort to to believe, we are like the man who unplugs a spotlight and then blames the spotlilght for not giving any light.
...Brethren, let me be clear; there is nothing noble or impressive about being cynical. Skepticism is easy—anyone can do it. It is the faithful life that requires moral strength, dedication, and courage. Those who hold fast to faith are far more impressive than those who give in to doubt when mysterious questions or concerns arise.”


How should we pray for them? Follow the example of Jesus in the Lord's prayer. “Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil”. We can and should always pray that our loved ones will be protected from Satan and that the evil one will not have power over them.

Rather than having our list of things we want the Lord to do we should be asking what we should do and how? If we have an idea then we should go to him and ask if it is right? Then proceed with faith, believing in His word.

Remember to fast. Fast often and sincerely, Fast in the best way that you can.

Then, Pray, often and sincerely, on your knees, on your feet in your chair but listen to the answers. The answers will most often be found in the scriptures. Spend time searching them daily. Don't just read them. Search them. Connect scriptures by subject to each other and to the conference talks which explain these things in easy to understand language for us.
Effective prayer is not a “To Do” of things we have decided we want God to do for us” It is not constant incessantly begging, begging and pleading. It is asking in faith and believing. It is followed by trust and action on our part. It is trusting in God. It is continual prayer but not panicked begging as we first might do, that has to find and end as we learn to believe and to be grateful for every blessing along the way. It is taking action to do our part.

Mighty prayer are said in the temple. Go there. Do it. Have faith, believe. Pray for yourself that you can bear this burden and then remember the 11th article of faith. Allow all men, (even our own children or spouse) to worship according to the dictates of their own conscience. But never give up hope in your heart. Continue with mighty prayer and fasting and believe!

Remember this quote from Vaugh J. Featherstone of the Seventy
“I promise you that all who faithfully attend to temple work will be blessed beyond measure. Your family will draw closer to the Lord, unseen angels will watch over your loved ones when satanic forces tempt them, the veil will be thin and great spiritual experiences will distill upon this people.”

They will come back. We hope sooner instead of later but we must be kind and loving to those who hurt us so deeply with their unbelief.

Now be grateful. Be grateful for every step and tiny drop of progress and mercy that we receive. Gratitude can heal our hearts. It is not God's plan to take away agency but it is His plan that we all make it back to Him if we choose.

Pres. Uchtdorf, April '14 conference
Grateful in Any Circumstance
We can choose to be grateful, no matter what, ...When we are grateful to God in our circumstances, we can experience gentle peace in the midst of tribulation. In grief, we can still lift up our hearts in praise. In pain, we can glory in Christ’s atonement. In the cold of bitter sorrow, we can experience the closeness and warmth of heaven's embrace. We sometimes think that being grateful is what we do after our problems are solved, but how terribly shortsighted that is, How much of life do we miss by waiting to see the rainbow before thanking God that there is rain”
Being grateful in times of distress does not mean that we are pleased with our circumstances. It does mean that through the eyes of faith we look beyond our present-day challenges. This is not a gratitude of the lips but of the soul. It is a gratitude that heals the heart and expands the mind.


This is a parent's trial every bit as much as a wayward son or daughter or spouse's trial. God knows that you will help them find their way back. You will do all you can. Perhaps that is why he gave them to you, because he knows you and that you care and will do everything you can to help them along the way back to Him.

If you want his direction then search his words daily with sincere prayer. It is more important that eating and definitely more important that TV or facebook. We all have time to seek his direction. Allow yourself a good measure of time to do this.

These trials should make us become better people. We can only really control our own selves and that is only to a certain extent. We can control our attitude and our hearts. We can make it back to Him! We can be an example of righteousness and of a pure heart.

1- Pray mighty personal prayers. Participate in temple prayers.
2- Ask questions, Listen, act.
3-Fast seriously and sincerely for a purpose
4-Believe, really believe, like a mustard seed! -Trust the Lord

5-Be grateful  

Friday, November 13, 2015

LOOK! 1 Nephi 14:18

1 Nephi 14:18—LOOK!

What
the angel spoke to Nephi saying Look!

Look is capitalized and has an exclamation point!

Why
Look! Means more than just seeing something. It means to see it and think about it and understand it.

It means to wake up and take notice or learn and observe thoguhtfully what the Lord has to show and teach Nephi and us.
It means to behold it.

Pattern
  • Gen 9:1
And the bow shall be in the cloud and I will look upon it,that I may remember the everlasting covenant.
  • Gen. 19:17 (to Lot) look not behind thee. v. 26 but his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt.
  • Numbers 21:8 (Moses lifts up a serpent of brass to save those who look theron.)
  • Mosiah 18:1 but that they shall look forward to that day for a remission of their sins.
  • Alma 5:3 Do you look forward with an eye of faith...
  • Alma 37:3 if they would look they might live, even so it is with us, the way is prepared and if we look we may live.
  • D&C 6:36 Look unto me in every thought, doubt not, fear not...Behold the wounds... be faithful, keep my commandments and ye shall inherit the kingdom of heaven.
  • Hebrews 9:28 So Christ was once offered to bear the sins of many, and unto them that look for him shall he appear the second time without sin unto salvation.

Conference
  • 10/15 Durrant
My Heart Pondereth
(ponderizing a scripture each week can help us look unto Christ in every thought)

  • 4/15 Causse
Is it Still Wonderful to You?
We look but we don't see, we hear but we don't really listen. Jesus said “blessed are the eyes which see the things that ye see.
1-Never tire of rediscovering the truth.
2-anchor your faith in the plain and simple truths of the gospel ...see and cherish the companionship of the Holy Ghost. Most wonders of the gospel cannot be perceived by our natural senses.

Apply
Hold to the rod, help others on their way, have faith, keep daily spiritusl goals of first priority.
Pray deeper and more, study prayerfully and daily, review hymns daily, keep an eye single to the Glory of God. HEAVEN WILL HAPPEN
Seek me in every thought, doubt not, fear not, D&C 6:36

Hymns
89 The Lord Is My Light
158 Before Thee, Lord.
Psalms 119:103-105
...Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path...